Monthly Archives: February 2011

Trevor Lamb ’04 Dances With Matt

No, not Matt Lamb ’07.

Matt Harding.

In 2003 the former video game developer did an impromptu dance in Hanoi.  A friend filmed Matt, and a tradition began.

By 2006 people around the planet were viewing his videos.  He danced — “badly,” which was part of the charm — in Mongolia, Cambodia, Antarctica, Machu Picchu, Namibia, New York, Fiji and Iceland.

And everywhere in between.

Matt Harding dancing with friends in Papua New Guinea.

Over 75 million folks watched him.  His videos — showing him dancing on a crab-filled South Pacific Beach; in the mountains of Kyrgyzstan; in the slums of Mumbai; in Korea’s DMZ; in the plazas of Buenos Aires and the villages of Africa — are goofy, gleeful, and oddly compelling.

But let Trevor — the former Staples junior varsity coach who is in his 2nd year in China, teaching and working and learning — pick up the story:

I’ve been familiar with Matt’s video for some time.  Two weeks ago a friend told me he would be visiting Shanghai.  Unfortunately, I was leaving that same day for Hong Kong.

However, on arriving in Hong Kong I found out that his next stop was — Hong Kong.  So I would have the chance to dance with Matt after all.

The area designated by Matt on his Facebook event page was the “Walk of Stars” boardwalk (Hong Kong’s version of Hollywood’s, with people like Jackie Chan and Jet Li instead of Paul Newman and Arnold).

Groups of people, local and foreigners, young and old, arrived at 8 p.m. as expected.  Matt, however, did not.

Trevor Lamb (last year, at the World Cup in South Africa)

Despite his tardiness there was a great friendly energy in the air.  People were in a festive mood.  Some dressed up in cow, Super Mario, even drag queen outfits to celebrate the occasion.  Everyone talked about dancing with Matt.

Around 8:15 Matt arrived to a hero’s welcome from around 150 pseudo-fans.  We immediately got to business:  Standing in front of Hong Kong’s iconic skyline of triumphant buildings.

First Matt read to us a liability statement that we had to record in case he gets the video commercially sponsored, so no silly dancer can decide he wants a piece of the pie.  Then we tried 4 or 5 takes of dancing — happily, but strangely without music.

Some of the dances were more choreographed than Matt’s standard Irish gig-ish dance, but nothing too fancy — still straight-up Matt-style.  There were a dozen or so cameras recording.  Ironically, the smallest was Matt’s.  The others — from the media and Asian people — overcompensated.

The whole taping took 30 minutes.  Then hordes of people started taking photos with Matt, videos dancing with Matt, even giving Matt their babies to dance and take photos with.  It was like he was a celebrity equal to the names we were dancing on.

I had just arrived in Hong Kong and still had several errands to run, so I didn’t stick around to take photos and chat with Matt.  Later in the evening I  Facebragged that I had danced with the Matt.

That would be the end of the story, except for this:  Trevor had no idea that Matt was a fellow Staples graduate.  Trevor found out when someone commented on his Facebook post.

So Trevor and Matt parted without connecting over their shared high school experience — 8,037 miles from home.

“That made the experience somewhat bittersweet,” Trevor notes.

“Regardless,” he says, “dancing was a great experience, and I remain a strong supporter of the video and project.  It shows how we live in an age in which you can be famous not for being good looking, not even for being particularly talented, but for having an idea to make your dreams real, and in doing so unite scores of people from all corners of the world.”

After all that, he asks, “How can you not have an optimistic view of the future?”

Matt could not be reached for comment.  Wherever he is.

Hirten Family Establishes Staples Tuition Grants Scholarships

The family of Preston Hirten ’07 has established a scholarship in his name through Staples Tuition Grants.  For over 70 years, STG has been an important source of funding for Staples graduates — sometimes for all 4 years of college.

Preston Hirten

The award will be called the #15 Preston Hirten Memorial Scholarships.  Two awards will be given annually — to 1 boy and 1 girl who have “participated in Staples athletics, and have demonstrated leadership on and/or off the field.”

Donations can be sent to Staples Tuition Grants, PO Box 5159, Westport, CT 06880-5159, or online (click here for the STG website).


Registration Closes April 1 For STA Pre-Season Camp

Registration closes April 1 for Staples’ STA pre-season camp.  This annual event is for players who consider themselves to be legitimate varsity candidates only.  After April 1, players will be put on a waiting list.

This year’s camp will be held Thursday, August 18 through Tuesday, August 23.  There will be double sessions (morning and evening) each day.   Brian Kuk and Brian Chandler return to run the 2011 camp.  Both are excited about helping the Wreckers reach the state finals once again, and 4-peat as FCIAC champs.  They admire Staples soccer greatly, and play a key role in its success.

To register, go to www.STASoccer.com.  Players who participated last year and paid online should login with their email address and password.  (Those who forgot it can the “password reminder” feature on the website).  New players should click the “Not A Member? Join Now” button on the website.

Once logged in:

1.  Click “Sign Me Up! Register for a Training Session.”
2.  Select “Connecticut” from the drop down menu and click the search button.
3.  Review the “STA Staples HS Preseason” program, then click the “Register Now” button.

Follow all online instructions.  Registrants will receive a confirmation page and email.

Questions?  Email Brian.Kuk@sta.soccer.com, or call 434-975-5025, ext. 17.

Obituary: Frederick Lea

Frederick B. Lea, father of longtime Staples coach Jeff Lea, died last Friday.  He was 95.

Mr. Lea was a retired sales manager with Celanese Coatings.  A resident of Westwood, Mass. for 58 years, he and his wife, Martha Taylor Lea, recently moved to New Pond Village in Walpole, Mass.

Born in Prince Edward Island, Canada in 1915, Frederick moved to Hull, Mass. with his large family in 1925.  He graduated from Boston University in 1937 with a B.S. in chemistry.  He was a member of Phi Beta Kappa Honor Society.

In World War II Lea served with the U.S. Army, Medical Administrative Corps, as a company commander.  As Medical Supply Officer of the 4th Armored Division (“Spearhead”) of General Patton’s Third Army, Captain Lea was the 1st medical officer to enter Buchenwald concentration camp.  He ordered the establishment of an evacuation hospital to treat prisoners in their first hours of liberation.

Awarded a Bronze Star and 5 campaign stars, Mr. Lea was authorized to wear the Presidential Unit Citation Ribbon and the French Fourragère.

A 60-year member of First Parish of Westwood – United Church, Mr. Lea was moderator for numerous years and served on many boards and committees.  A particular focus was mentoring youth.  At schools, colleges, synagogues and churches, he spoke out against violence, anti-Semitism and racism.

Besides Martha, his wife of 68 years, and his son Jeff of Fairfield, Conn. and Glen, N.H., he is survived by his daughter, Lucinda Lea of Philadelphia, PA.; his grand-daughter, Amanda Katherine Lea of Warren, VT, and Jeff’s wife, Katherine Steele Lea.

He also leaves two sisters, Marion Cushing of Arlington, Mass. and Helen Edmunds of Huntingtown, Md., and many beloved nieces, nephews, grandnieces and grandnephews.He was predeceased by his sisters Jennie Jenkins of Prince Edward Island, and Hilda Bedford of Hingham, Mass., as well as brothers Harry (in infancy), George of Arlington, Mass., and William of Hingham.

A memorial service at First Parish Church is planned for Saturday, February 26, at 2 p.m.  Interment will take place in early summer at the Quaker Cemetery in North Sandwich, N.H.  The mountains, rivers and lakes in and near Whiteface  have always been of special importance in the lives of Mr. and Mrs. Lea and their family.

Jordan Schur ’01 Announces Engagement

Jordan Schur ’01 — a key defender on Staples’ 2000 state semifinalist squad, who went on to a stellar basketball career at Union College — is engaged to Karen Kruger.

Jordan proposed to Karen this past Sunday while skiing on top of Jiminy Peak in the Berkshires. The couple met after being introduced by a mutual friend.  They quickly grew close over a shared love for sports — “especially Staples Soccer,” says Jordan.

Jordan is an associate at Smith Mazure Director Wilkins Young and Yagerman, a New York-based law firm, while Karen works in human resources at the private equity firm 3i.

Jordan and Karen live together in New York City.  Their main hobby these days is planning their 2012 wedding.

Summer Job Opportunity: Camp Head Soccer Coach

Camp Laurel needs a head soccer coach.

The Maine children’s summer camp — known for its superb staff and excellent facilities — is directed by Jem Sollinger ’88.

Prior high school and/or college coaching is a plus. Camp Laurel offers a top salary and travel allowance.  Room and board is included. The season runs from mid-June through mid-August.

For more information call (800) 327-3509, e-mail jem@camplaurel.com, or visit www.camplaurel.com.

Some of the sports staff at Camp Laurel.

Wreckers Set New Indoor Track Marks

A senior and sophomore soccer player helped set records at Saturday’s state LL indoor track championship, at Hillhouse High School.

Sean Gallagher was part of of the meet record-setting 4×400 relay.  Last fall’s soccer captain joined with Jonathan Heil, Jack Roche and Raphael Ray, roaring to a 3:29.07 time that beat the 3:29.69 mark set by Hamden last year.  The performance topped the Wrecker team’s own school mark.

Sophomore Walker Marsh ran the opening leg of the 4×800 relay.  He was followed by Roche, Jeff Caffery and Henry Wynne.   They finished 2nd to Hamden by less than 1 second, but their 8:05.38 time established a new Staples mark.

The 4×200 relay also placed 2nd.  That foursome included junior Max Hoberman, and senior George Birch (a former Staples soccer player).

Overall, Staples finished 2nd to Danbury.  The Hatters outscored the Wreckers, 66-53.

Up next:  the state open, this Saturday in New Haven.

Walker Marsh (left), with 4x800 relay teammates Jack Roche, Jeff Caffery and Henry Wynne.

Norwalk Nips Westport In Futsal Finals

Staples hosted a 4-team futsal tournament this afternoon, for current and graduating high school-age players.  Three Norwalk teams, and 1 from Westport, competed in the gym.

Andres Torres scored the only goal in the final.  Norwalk’s top squad edged a team of returning Staples players, 1-0.

Westport was represented by Lars Aanestad, Noah Bender, Lorenz Esposito, Terence Gibbons, James Hickok, Dylan Hoy, Jake Malowitz and Will Meinke. The team went 1-1-1, then captured the semifinal 4-1.

The next futsal event will include more FCIAC schools.

Action from today’s futsal tournament. Westport is in green.

2010 Stats Added To Website

The 2010 game results have been added to StaplesSoccer.com.

Click on the “Stats” link at the top of the home page — then dive in to 52 years of Staples soccer. Use the “Advanced Search” bar to filter results by year or opposing team (try “New Canaan” to see the Wreckers’ remarkable record against the Rams).

“Stats” are just one function of StaplesSoccer.com. Use them all!

Harry Birch and the rest of his teammates had a bloody good year. Check out the "stats" page for a look back.

4 Wreckers Officially Commit To D-I Schools

It’s official:  4 Staples soccer seniors have signed letters of intent with Division I schools.

Frankie Bergonzi (Colgate University), Greg Gudis (Columbia University) and Brendan Lesch (University of Notre Dame) enjoyed a photo opportunity and interview session at Staples this afternoon.  Sean Gallagher (United States Naval Academy) was not there; he was running in the FCIAC indoor track championships.

The event was originally scheduled for yesterday — the official NCAA “Signing Day” — but school was closed due to an ice storm.

Principal John Dodig, athletic director Marty Lisevick and head coach Dan Woog made brief remarks.  Woog noted that 4 D-I players from 1 class is a special — and rare — occasion, and praised them for their contributions to the Staples soccer program.

The quartet — all of whom played 4 years of varsity soccer — then spoke eloquently, praising their teammates, coaches, parents and Staples High School for the opportunities they have received.

Brendan Lesch, Frankie Bergonzi and Greg Gudis enjoy the ceremony. Sean Gallagher was at an indoor track meet.